Sunday, November 29, 2020

Introduction

Hey! Come on in, welcome to the Calmest Home Around, a blog fifteen-years-too-late-to-be-cool and easily the biggest exercise in futility I have ever attempted.  Whether you meant to be or not, here you are, much like the rest of life.  The likelihood that anyone is here voluntarily and on purpose this early in the game is nonexistent, but if I somehow manage some sort of following, welcome and I'm so grateful you are here.

I started this blog as a way to share my ideas on living a calmer life.  My life, as you might imagine as a fellow human, is still a work in progress.  My ultimate goal is to be the kind of woman who can stand in the face of incredible circumstances with a steady heartbeat and a clear mind.  I want to do this through landing on a solid foundation of faith, implementing daily routines, seeking joy and gratitude and being self-aware in every area of my life with the intention of changing what is needed.

I won't say that my life has been incredibly difficult, but I have certainly been through some incredible circumstances where my heartbeat wasn't steady and my mind was not clear.  I'm a barren woman, an adoptive mom of two, attempting a third.  I have had my heart shattered through bringing our children home, and not bringing children home.  People I have cared about have left this earth, precious pets that I've said goodbye to, terrible weeks where things just went wrong and I did not handle it well.  So I'm not coming at this from an all-knowing perspective.  

I'm working towards peace and calm from a completely broken place.  I hope I learn some things along the way and hopefully am able to share them with you.

As far as a personal introduction, my name is Kristin.  I have two sons (J and L) and a beautiful daughter, K.  I am married to my high school sweetheart and we have been married for 15 years.  We own one dog, Ruhe (pronounced Roo), a red heeler we found at a local shelter.  We live in a small town in Nebraska and other than being a stay at home, home schooling mom, I give private music lessons a couple of nights a week.  In another life I would have loved to be a recording oboist or clarinetist for movie orchestras, but I enjoy teaching littles how to play just as much.